Have you ever taken the time to think about all of the necessary endings in your life that have encouraged you to grow? Growth can be scary, but the alternative…
When we teach girls to trust their own creativity, boldness, and intuition, we teach them to defy the rules, the bullies, and the peer pressure at a deeper level. Limiting beliefs are hard to break, but the earlier we catch them, the more we can help our little sisters, our daughters, and our mentees to achieve.
Does your daughter have someone she can talk to? Someone you trust to give her sound advice? Someone she believes cares about her? Someone she doesn't mind opening up to? If so, excellent! If for some reason, your answer was no, I'd like to persuade you to help her identify a mentor quickly. Why does she need your help? She may need your help because she doesn't recognize the value, see the need, or feel bold enough to initiate the relationship. Is this something you've modeled? Do you have a mentor or do you mentor someone (other than your own children) that she knows about?
The holidays are here! I hope you're as excited as I am, but just in case you're wondering about how to spend your time with your daughter and thinking of ideas, I've got one...or four...for you!
The kitchen was one of the many places my grandma used to teach me life lessons, and I think it was one of the easiest for me to process the info because it gave me something to focus my attention on when I became uncomfortable with the subject matter. I developed anorexia when I was fifteen, a time when I found myself eating fast food more and more and spending less time in the kitchen. You might be surprised by what you find out about your teen when you begin cooking together! Read the entire blog to find more suggestions…